Peer pressure spending; how much does it cost you?

by Money Doctor Monday 20 August, 2007

Impressing our friends with high social spending, showing off our designer clothes and splashing out on flash cars!

A new study reveals that we are spending £45billion annually just to "keep up with the Joneses"!

One in five of us admit to overspending due to peer pressure, and it costs each one of us, on average, £5,874 each year!

The figures come from online credit monitoring service CreditExpert.co.uk, who also reveal that over 25% of us admit we are pressured into spending more because we're embarrassed about our financial situation; we go along with our peers to avoid questions being asked!

However, it appears that being image-conscious is the main reason for us spending too much in social situations, with 37% of us feeling insecure about not fitting in.

In terms of what we are spending money on:

  • 48% of us feel pressured into large rounds of drinks and the same amount feel compelled to spend more than we had planned on gifts for friends and family
  • 39% of us try to impress on dates and because of this, spend more than we really should
  • Its no different at work, with 38% saying we contribute more money than we would like on colleagues' leaving or birthday presents
The study of 1,450 people also found that:

We are a country of fashionistas, with 12% of us spending more than £100 a month beyond our means on clothes.

The men among us admit to overspending on our cars by £1,964 extra a year to keep up with our mates. By comparison, the ladies amongst us overspend on motoring by just £1,068.

Those of you in the East Midlands, Wales and Scotland are the most worried about being considered tight with their money, while those of you in the West Midlands and North West were least bothered what people think about them.

Those aged 18 to 24 are the most likely to give in to peer pressure purchases; 41% admit they overspend to keep up socially, compared to the national average of 19% and nearly 60% don't want to miss out as the reason for their overspending.

Not surprisingly, those of you living in London are the most susceptible to peer pressure spending with 25% of you saying you have spent more than you intended. If you live further North, you seem less inclined to keep up with the Joneses; only 14% of those in Scotland and the North East spend money they don't want to.

Jim Hodgkins, Managing Director of CreditExpert.co.uk, said: "It's staggering to see how much we're overspending just to keep up with our peers. While it's great to be generous at the bar or on a date, we should be spending because we want to and not because we feel pressured".

Below are the top 5 activities we spend beyond our means on due to peer pressure and the average cost to us per year:

1 Buying a more expensive car £1,624

2 Clothes shopping £888

3 Paying for someone else on a date, night out, day trip £660

4 Birthday, Christmas and wedding presents £600

5 Dining at a more expensive restaurant £516

So, are you a peer pressure overspender?

And if so, just how much is it costing you to keep with the Joneses?

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marktristan says:

Tuesday 21 August, 2007 / 14:08

I imagine the Christmas presents total is skewed by parents who overspend on their children's behalf, i.e. so kids as well as parents can keep up with the Joneses. Is there anywhere more intense for peer-pressure than school?

Marianne says:

Tuesday 21 August, 2007 / 17:08

lt can work in reverse. l worked and saved hard,
no fancy holidays, no debts, no loans. Most people
l knew used to take the mickey out of my clothes
and feel rather superior. Ofcourse, their lifestyles were funded by debt. Now they are
wondering why l recently bought a large detatched
Georgian house and a Rolls Royce. Still debt free
and a nice little sum still left of my savings.
Tortoise and the hare economics.

Lisa says:

Tuesday 21 August, 2007 / 21:08

Like you story Marianne !!!
I dont have any debt apart from my mortgage, just turned 33 and I have just bought a lovely 5 bed house lovely area big garden and annexe which im converting to work from home I also have a 3 bed semi which rent out (luckily didnt have to sell it, so hopefully will be good for a pension and inheritance for my daughter) I do work long hours I used to drive a merces convertible but sold this to put deposit on my latest house and do you know what my friends say to me ????? They say im really lucky !!! They dont take into account the hours I work, and the work I carry on to do when my daughters in bed which can take me up to 3am ! I believe if you want things in life dont waste your money and if you really want something you will get it if you work for it. I think my friends think I dont do anything !

t says:

Wednesday 22 August, 2007 / 20:08

The lack of comments saya it all I think,its all too easy to get money now and get into debt. Its having a devistating effect now tho,all this peer pressure,people want bigger cars,houses,holidays and anything else to out do each other and all its doing is pushing up demand and therefore prices! If we all had to save up for things it would be as cheap as the eastern european countries are now.Fair play to you two ladies,you're doing well, but i believe nobody should have to sacrifice their live by workin just to have a nice house, you've no time to enjoy it.The point I'm making is we're just ruining it for ourselves.

Patrick Williams says:

Thursday 23 August, 2007 / 10:08

"Peer Pressure spending". I think some people just want to have it all, and behave like the celebrities who are glamourised and constantly in the public eye. It's an addictive lifestyle but if you don't have the cash to spend and are living off debt it's likely to end in tears. I like going out and spending a bit quite often, but i always know my limits and try to stick to them. I do feel you have to enjoy your life while you can because you never know what's around the corner. Working and saving great but sometimes i just need to forget all that and have some fun. One bit of advice i could give to people who are keeping up the joneses is, you need to ask yourself: do you really want to have "friends" whom you have to pretend around? All my friends and colleagues are geniune, and i can easily just turn around and say to them, "can't go out tonight, i'm broke!"

Marianne says:

Friday 24 August, 2007 / 17:08

Lisa?....... xxxxxxx.

Lisa says:

Friday 24 August, 2007 / 23:08

Thanks Marianne x
Totally agree Patrick, friends family and health are more important, and yes its the true friends that dont mind the last comment you made.
I have been anywhere much this year because im getting married 22nd Sept this year and have been saving to pay for it ( I refuse to go into debt for a wedding) we have had what we want and its going to be a lovely day (I hope) However March this year I was going to postpone it for 12 months because I used all of our savings for a deposit on the house were in now (obviously to keep mortgage repayments lower) but... a school friend of mine got knocked off his bike and killed and it was then I changed my mind and thought, "do it now you might not be here next year" This wasnt an excuse thou to borrow and go into debt we just saved worked and negotiated and all is looking good now.
In life I always give myself aims when thats accomplished I set myself another goal, after my wedding im going to refurb my annexe into my workplace, buy more company vehicles to expand the company. So its not all work work work you have to have a treat but be sensible...you know your limits.
Long term I want to write a book, not about me ha ha I like reading and Im sure I could do a good twisted book and enjoy it to.
And I would like a place abroad to chill when Im in my 50's
Have a good bank holiday weekend all ! ( cant believe I have 3 days off)
Lisa x

gail says:

Tuesday 28 August, 2007 / 22:08

Lisa, sounds like you've got a good and well deserved future and I wish you well. Wish I had thought in such a sensible way. Money stress is such a must to avoid, especially getting into debt as a lot do for a wedding, its not a good start, though we don't realise it at the time. Have a lovely 22/9 you deserve it.

andrea says:

Friday 31 August, 2007 / 13:08

good for you ( marianne and Lisa) for not buying into the pressure. I too spent a good few years paying off student debt, living in a mobile home - (which is better equipped than a flat I rented previously and cheaper!! and also for those of you interested in getting a house ou get more points on the council so get put forward more for shared onership / housing assosiation housing)) and now I have one small loan, a good job, a morgage and 2 houses. I worked my butt off. When I spend I ask myself do i need it or want it? There is a big difference. Yes many of my friends call me tight and in the past pass comment that 'ooh I have my heating on'!!! but hey who cares they are living off their credit cards every month.

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